I figured I would post this here since it is the general discussion.



I have been here for a little over a month now. This is such a great forum so I thought I would share a joyous moment in my life with you folks.



I got a call from my divorce attorney asking me when I could come down to the courthouse and finalize my divorce. No finer words have been spoken to me since I heard "Hey, your rebuild is done on your RX-7, come pick it up."



It has been a year since I have been separated.



I just felt I should share this with ya'll.

 

Ummm, Congrats?

If you've been looking forward to it. . .Cool!

But still sorry to hear it.

 

Hey thanks man. I have been looking forward to it. Too much history to discuss on the forum here. But suffice to say, it was for the best.



Now, if I can just get my car to pass inspection......

 

Well at least you have each other and I am glad yall are happy now!!



My mom has been through both. They sure do get costly.....

 

ive been researching that topic since saturday

 

i have been through that **** too. i felt the same way. especially because my x-wife tried to have me committed for being insane. she felt that i was out of sorts because she was to beautiful and wealthy for anyman to resist. i tell you, on january 1st of 2002, i was happier than i have ever been......i even settled out of court, had no lawyer to pay, and well, except for paying out 4K out of my car fund, came out clean....



i walked, and was fine with just the clothes on my back......



i hate that this happened, i hope that NO ONE has to go through it, but they will. it is not fun, and there is not a day that goes by that i think about what happened, and wish her all the best after it has passed......



sorry to hear about that dude......





louis

 

I gotta question, why do people get married, and then divorce a few years down the road? Normally most marriages end up in divorces because either A. they rushed into it, and are too young to be married anyway or B. Never liked eachother that much, but wanted to be married... then found out it wasn't the right thing to do....





Eh, I dunno. I just don't understand people these days. If you get married, you obviously love that person very much. There shouldn't be any real reason to have a divorce, if so, you never really loved that person so much in the beginning to even go past that step of life. Or something.



That is my opinion!





But I am sorry to hear.

 

Don't get me wrong here, I am not at all proud of the fact that I am getting divorced. I have been angry, upset, sad and every other emotion you can think of. What I am happy about is the fact that after a year of being seperated and that same year of trying to get attornies to do the job they are supposed to, it is finally overwith and I can move on with my life and she with hers.



My wife and I were together for 11 years. Only 3 1/2 were in marriage. In 11 years I think you have a pretty good idea of who the person is you are going to spend the rest of your life with. Well, things change, people change.



Christi, I respect your opinion and wish I could share the same view of relationships and marriage that you have but in my case it just isn't true. I knew this woman at least I thought I did (11 years). We did not rush into anything. We waited until we were both done with school and our residencies before getting married. Things changed after we were married that added quite a lot of stress in our lives and it was enough for us to call it quits. I am sad that it did not work out but happy to be moving on.

 

After everything that goes on in a divorce i can see how you can be glad to get everything finalized. So I guess, good luck with your car and with being a "free man" again.

 

Ack i am sorry if my wordings came out wrong =/